To Dan Bylsma, the Gods of Sport resided in his back yard, and were personified in his big brothers Scott, Greg, and Jon. They became his biggest competition, his heroes, and his best friends. Before he could walk, Dan watched the endless games played by his siblings and their father Jay. Mentored by this athletic family, this youngster learned early what it took to win--on and off the field. "So Your Son Wants to Play in the NHL" offers practical advice to parents who are faced with the complex challenges of raising children in sports. How much should they practice? What level of competition is appropriate? How hard do you push? What can you do to avoid burnout? Why stress education?

The Bylsmas' unique approach to success is simple. It begins with preparation for life, because they believe a lot of what it means to play in the NHL has nothing to do with hockey! Jay Bylsma raised his children outside of the travel-team culture of youth sports. He encouraged excellence in all areas of development including education, character, and morals. Then, and only then, the Bylsma family played. Sports were their reward.

Dan Bylsma reached his pinnacle of success--playing hockey in the NHL--by applying simple lessons and values. "So Your Son Wants to Play in the NHL" is an examination of life, sports, and the important lessons we learn, and teach, in the pursuit of our dreams.

"So Your Son Wants to Play in the NHL" has been endorsed by the NHL.

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